"I found that it was most helpful to realize how many families do have problems with relationship issues whether it be immediate family or in-law issues. While there is little that a facilitator can do to make the situation better, her suggestions are very good in helping you to make some changes and accepting what you can't change"

-- Lee Robertson

"My monthly HER support group provides me a safe space to share my ideas and feelings with other women experiencing estrangements with their adult children. I really appreciate the open dialogue and honesty the other women bring to the table. Our facilitator, Dr. Jane Toler, is an inspiration, and always provides helpful resource materials."

-- Sylvia G., Dallas, TX

" I have learned so much from attending monthly HER meetings.
Although our individual stories are personally unique in the details, we
all share the struggle of dealing with the confusion, guilt and often
despair of being estranged from our adult child. Sharing these
struggles with each other and with our able facilitator brings us closer
to realizing hope, understanding, acceptance and peace."

-- Jo Z., Dallas, TX

"I have found great comfort attending monthly HER support group meetings. The programs have taught me ways of coping with my feelings of hurt, guilt and rejection. I have learned alternative ways of communicating with my estranged daughter which have led to a break-through and healing in our relationship."

-- Ann F., Houston,TX